We were blessed to have two children stay with us through foster care in the past 6 months. A four year old girl for just 24 hours. Then, a four year old boy for 4 months (he is 9 days younger than our youngest!). We learned a lot about parenting a child who has been through trauma and also about ourselves. Undoubtedly, there is still more to learn. I've come away from this experience knowing in my heart... this is one of my life's true callings. Yes, it is hard. There are things I would do different, better next time. But, loving a child through a very difficult time in their lives is one of the most fulfilling experiences I have ever had in my life. Growing as a family in our faith. Seeing our children make sacrifices to make someone else feel comfortable. Making a difference. Our daughter prays all the time that a child who needs a family will soon become a permanent part of ours.
A sweet friend who recently adopted a child told me yesterday that God works in amazing ways when it comes to adoption. She assured me that God will bring us through this in a way we'd never dream of. So, today... I am clinging to this truth and His promises.
Blessings, Nicki
